Review #3: Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing: A Memoir by Matthew Perry

I typically “read” one book a month via Audible and find that it is easiest and best to listen to non-fiction books. This month I chose Matthew Perry’s memoir. I have seen it ALL over the place and I knew he struggled with addiction, so I was hooked. I am fascinated by addiction and drugs – I think it is a fear-based addiction. I have read my fair share of addiction memoirs and am extremely sympathetic to those who suffer with the disease. I am acutely aware of the opioid epidemic in this country and know that doctors and laws need to change in order prevent another generation from ruin.

Perry’s memoir is an 8/10. I have been quite generous with my ratings these days. I have to start reading bad books. Perry is raw, vulnerable, funny, and engaging. I, along with most of America, know Matthew Perry as Chandler from Friends, but I knew nothing about him personally. I knew that there we were seasons when Perry went away to rehab, but I had no idea to the extent with which he suffered. I believe many of those who struggle will feel empathy and empowered by Perry’s words.

I personally enjoyed the Audible because the author read it himself in his iconic voice. I recommend this book to everyone, but even more specifically, those interested in addiction, struggling with addiction, or with family/friends who suffer.

The readability factor of this book is 10/10. It is smooth, quick, and uncomplicated. I wouldn’t recommend this one if you want a traditional Hollywood memoir and can’t stomach addiction and drug references as it should come with a major TW for those.